The internet is full of quick resources, words and self-help advice amidst times of calm and times of crisis. Today we talk about Anger. You can find help on literally anything on the go anytime, anywhere. But how much of it is true and actually helpful and how much of it is just click-bait and sensationalism. Thankfully, we have a book that has stood the test of time. King Solomon, the wisest man to have ever lived (excluding Jesus fully-man of course). Solomon, Son of David, when asked by God he can have anything he wants, Solomon responded “Give me wisdom and knowledge, that I may lead this people, for who is able to govern this great people of yours?” (2 Chronicles 1:10). It is through this godly wisdom that we have the book of Proverbs today! Today we focus on Proverbs 20 – Beat yourself up!
Let’s journey through Proverbs!
Be hard on yourself!
You may disagree, but talk to anyone who has had a really good workout lately and they’ll tell you – the best thing they’ve done for their bodies is also something that tears down tissue and causes soreness.
We feel beat up.
One of the strangest Proverbs to our ears goes like this, “Blows and wounds scrub away evil, and beatings purge the inmost being.” (Proverbs 20:30)
What in the world?
The point is that self-discipline helps us get rid of stuff – sometimes forcefully – that cause us to be unwise and unhealthy.
- When people battle addiction, the early stages are often painful.
- When we battle with eating and our weight, the workouts and changing eating habits are painful.
- When we dig in and work on our marriage, the conversations and sacrifices can be painful.
In a sense, the wise thing to do is often the most painful thing.
Our bodies aren’t big fans of pain, and that’s a good thing. However, our bodies are also the vehicles that drive our lives. Sometimes acting wisely means we tell our body “no” and then our body responds with an “Oh, yeah?” of pain and discomfort.
To live our lives wisely means we allow God to give us paths to discipline our minds, hearts, and bodies. To spend time with Scripture and work to understand it can be painful, but it trains our minds to think on good things. To spend time practicing prayer is difficult, but it teaches us to hear from God and take His direction. To spend time serving other people or staying away from things like porn and abusive substances is difficult, but it teaches us how to be free of pride and self-service, and to find the beautiful path of Jesus.
So what needs to be beaten up in our lives today? Remember, we don’t do this to earn God’s love – we do this because there’s better life in wisdom that’s right in front of us for the taking.
Wine is a mocker and beer a brawler; whoever is led astray by them is not wise. 2 A king’s wrath strikes terror like the roar of a lion; those who anger him forfeit their lives. 3 It is to one’s honor to avoid strife, but every fool is quick to quarrel. 4 Sluggards do not plow in season; so at harvest time they look but find nothing. 5 The purposes of a person’s heart are deep waters, but one who has insight draws them out. 6 Many claim to have unfailing love, but a faithful person who can find? 7 The righteous lead blameless lives; blessed are their children after them. 8 When a king sits on his throne to judge, he winnows out all evil with his eyes. 9 Who can say, “I have kept my heart pure; I am clean and without sin”? 10 Differing weights and differing measures— the Lord detests them both. 11 Even small children are known by their actions, so is their conduct really pure and upright? 12 Ears that hear and eyes that see— the Lord has made them both. 13 Do not love sleep or you will grow poor; stay awake and you will have food to spare. 14 “It’s no good, it’s no good!” says the buyer— then goes off and boasts about the purchase. 15 Gold there is, and rubies in abundance, but lips that speak knowledge are a rare jewel. 16 Take the garment of one who puts up security for a stranger; hold it in pledge if it is done for an outsider. 17 Food gained by fraud tastes sweet, but one ends up with a mouth full of gravel. 18 Plans are established by seeking advice; so if you wage war, obtain guidance. 19 A gossip betrays a confidence; so avoid anyone who talks too much. 20 If someone curses their father or mother, their lamp will be snuffed out in pitch darkness. 21 An inheritance claimed too soon will not be blessed at the end. 22 Do not say, “I’ll pay you back for this wrong!” Wait for the Lord, and he will avenge you. 23 The Lord detests differing weights, and dishonest scales do not please him. 24 A person’s steps are directed by the Lord. How then can anyone understand their own way? 25 It is a trap to dedicate something rashly and only later to consider one’s vows. 26 A wise king winnows out the wicked; he drives the threshing wheel over them. 27 The human spirit is[a] the lamp of the Lord that sheds light on one’s inmost being. 28 Love and faithfulness keep a king safe; through love his throne is made secure. 29 The glory of young men is their strength, gray hair the splendor of the old. 30 Blows and wounds scrub away evil, and beatings purge the inmost being.
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